Advice To Parents/Family Members

• Listen with an open mind. Be supportive and don't trivialize your student's concerns.
• Discuss values, but don't give lectures.
• Be prepared for your student's conflicting emotions as the day of departure approaches.
• If you take your student to campus, don't expect to spend a lot of time together. Orientation is designed to foster separation.
• Be a coach rather than a rescuer: Encourage your student to use the resources at college. Learn what the resources are. Keep all materials from orientation in an accessible place.
• Be an anchor; don't make major changes at home without informing your student first.
• Keep in touch; write letters/e-mails and send care packages if your student lives away from home.